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  • Funny The First Hundred Times... Maybe More

    Dad 8:20 am on February 24, 2009 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: htc mogul, joke, , vimeo

    Update:  Just in case you can’t see the embedded Vimeo video below, here’s the direct link to it on the Vimeo website:

    http://vimeo.com/3343680

    Our apologies to anyone that had trouble!

    So I cracked this joke at dinner last night, and Benjamin thought it was pretty funny, so he kept repeating it. And of course, I made him repeat it again for a quick little video. His fake-laughing really is super-funny, though maybe you have to be there to appreciate it. ;)

    The joke, in case the audio’s as poor as the video (recorded with my crappy cellphone camera), is “Is your nose running?” “Yes.” “Better go catch it!” followed by his classic fake-laughing and a request to watch the recording we’d just made. Enjoy!

     
  • Three. Already.

    Dad 8:05 am on February 20, 2009 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: ,

    So hard to believe it, but Benjamin’s three already. It’s just insane how fast time is flying!

    Benjamin The Bear - 08 Feb 2009

    He really is a fantastic kid. We’re so very proud of him and how nice a job he’s doing growing up, even if it seems like it’s all moving way too fast. He’s a great son and an awesome big brother.

    If you’re at all interested in a shot from his past, here’s a post from his very first birthday that includes a pretty cute picture of him:

    http://www.benjaminfalkenberg.com/2007/02/20/the-big-one/

    We’ll have some three-year portraits here to look at, soon, so keep an eye out for those.

    Benjamin’s transformation so far has been amazing, and continues to be amazing. And not just the changes in him, but also the changes in us as adults and parents; Stacey and I have also really grown tremendously since he was born; it seems like he teaches us as much as we teach him. And it all feels very, very right.

    Love you, buddy!

     
  • Zachary Sheds His Cast

    Dad 20:40 pm on January 8, 2009 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: bone growth, , , , cast removal, , , , , gore-tex, guarding, handedness, healed, healing, no fear, , recovery, saw, shedding bone, , waterproof, ,

    Zachary went in earlier this afternoon to get his cast removed and have another x-ray to verify his arm has indeed healed correctly.

    Bone growth was excellent, and he’s well on his way to full recovery. No second cast needed. All clear, he’s OK, and we can go home and be normal again!

    An Empty Shell

    Though his radius still looks crooked in the x-ray, we’re told that it will straighten back out fully on its own, growing and shedding bone as necessary to adjust to the correct positioning. At his age, we’re told that takes 3-4 months or so. The bone growth is very obvious in the x-ray; you can see a large mass of new growth covering the areas where the break occurred.

    The skin on his arm is a little bit chapped and dry, but that will resolve itself in no time as well with a bath and some lotion.

    One other thing we’ll be watching is whether he goes back to being a right-handed eater like he was before the cast; he’s gotten pretty used to eating as a lefty lately, with both his hands and with utensils.

    We went out to eat after his cast removal, and he kept raising both arms and dancing to the music. I think he’s happy to have his arm back. He’s still being a little bit guarded with it, but it’s just become habit these last few weeks from not using it fully; he’ll get over that quickly. He was giving high-fives and scratching his head and ear at dinner… and quite pleased with himself. Yay!

     
  • Carter's Is Giving ME A Rash

    Dad 17:37 pm on November 2, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: advisory, , , , clothing, CPSC, , , tagless

    Carter’s has issued a statement regarding their Fall 2007 line of “tag-less”-labeled baby and infant clothing causing allergic reactions and rashes, which can be found in its entirety here:

    http://www.carters.com/corporate/tagless_message.aspx

    The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission’s advisory on this issue is here:

    http://www.cpsc.gov/CPSCPUB/PREREL/prhtml09/09023.html

    The affected garments have tags that look like this:

    Garments with tags like the following are NOT part of the advisory:

    Interestingly, Carter’s is not issuing a recall, saying they’ve researched the matter thoroughly and concluded it’s only an issue in babies and infants with sensitive skin. Really, Carter’s?

    We have conducted an internal review of the product and test results, required our label manufacturers to do the same, and coordinated with several independent experts, including physicians, to provide their analyses. Our review and testing provide no indication that the labels contain any known skin irritants or abrasive chemicals, or that such a rash is anything beyond a rare allergic reaction to an otherwise safe product. We have received fewer than four reported rashes for every 1,000,000 of these products sold.

    Nevertheless, we have been working closely with the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission and issued a joint advisory to alert consumers to the situation.

    Carter’s claims “fewer than four reported rashes for every 1,000,000 of these products sold”. Seriously? Babies and infants get rashes all the time. Carters, do you really think that most people would consider your clothing the source of the problem? Most parents write such rashes off as reactions to teething or laundry detergent or something else entirely. The statistics mention seems a little…disingenuous.

    Our opinion on this is that Carter’s should do a recall and take a little more responsibility. Carter’s is basically saying their clothes “technically and legally aren’t a problem” and then are more or less pointing the finger at the kids wearing the clothes for being too sensitive. Umm, yeah.

    And if the rash persists? It’s apparently left to us to figure out on our own, according to their statement:

    What should I do if my child has a reaction to a tag-less label?
    You should stop using the garment that caused the reaction. If the condition persists, please contact your pediatrician for advice. We also encourage anyone with questions or comments to contact us at 1-888-282-4674 or by e-mail at contactus@carters.com.

    And there’s this:

    Is this reaction serious?
    It is our understanding that the reaction is a type of allergic reaction called contact dermatitis and that it generally clears up completely within a matter of days after removal from contact with the allergen. If the condition persists, please contact your pediatrician for advice.

    That’s right. They’re in the clear from the CPSC, so if the rash hangs around, you should simply start throwing piles of cash at your kid’s doctor and work it out yourself. Good grief.

    Some of you may remember that we had issues with Carter’s in the past, and we weren’t even complaining or reporting a problem. We once attempted to contact Carter’s for help finding a replacement for a toy for Benjamin…and never got any response from Carter’s at all.

    Does Carter’s think they’re actually responsive to consumers? Our own experience says they’re not… so we’re not particularly inclined to think Carter’s actually received or processed any or all reports regarding this rash issue.

    As always, Carter’s is here to answer any questions or concerns you may have. Please feel free to contact our Consumer Affairs center anytime at 1-888-282-4674 or by e-mail at contactus@carters.com.

    Tsk tsk, Carter’s. I want what you’re claiming about always being there for customers to be true; I really do. But it’s not. We’ve emailed you at that very email address above–contactus@carters.com–when we were looking for that replacement toy some time ago. We’ve still not received a reply. Not even an automated “got your message, we’ll get back to you” reply. Nothing. We were actually trying to buy something from you.

    Maybe now that they’re trying to save some face they’re finally checking their email. Maybe they’ll find that email of ours, from two years ago. (Don’t bother replying now; the replacement-toy issue is long-since resolved, thanks (for nothing)!)

    We do have some of the Carter’s clothing affected by this issue. Both Benjamin and Zachary have had some rashes, too. But, are they from the Carter’s clothing? Even now, we have no idea! However, in the spirits of both “better safe than sorry”, and “it’s the principle of the thing”, you can bet we’ll be contacting Carter’s to get those items refunded. Will it be a full refund? Carter’s says yes:

    What do I do if I’m not satisfied with my Carter’s clothing?
    As is our standard policy, customers may return any item that they are not satisfied with for a full refund. Our Consumer Affairs staff can be reached at 1-888-282-4674 or by email at contactus@carters.com, and will help with that return.

    Since prices vary all over the place, I wonder what they consider a ‘full’ refund. We’ll see.

    And, to be clear, we do like Carter’s stuff. We still buy Carter’s clothing and other items. But their customer service and their handling of this issue–in my opinion–leave something to be desired. I guess we’ve always held Carter’s to an all-around higher standard; maybe we shouldn’t.

    Are you affected by this clothing issue? What are your thoughts? Have you called/emailed them regarding a refund yet? What was the experience like? We’d love for you to share your stories and experiences in the comments.

     
  • "(heart) U DAD": simply awesome.

    Dad 19:10 pm on June 14, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: cake, fathers day,

    (heart) U DAD cake

    Both Benjamin and his Mom went out today and picked up a cake and decorated it for me for Father’s Day. Benjamin picked out all the different frosting colors, and did most of the decorating (with a little bit of Mom’s help, I’m told…). Sure, it’s all a day early, but I can’t say I minded one bit!

    When they presented it to me, Benjamin even wished me “Happy Father’s Day!”, which was really, really great.

    “(heart) U DAD” is simply… awesome.

     
  • Party postponed, everyone sick as dogs

    Dad 13:26 pm on February 15, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , , , , , ITP, , , ,

    That really says it all. Everyone’s sick with cold or flu or both, who knows. It’s terrible. Had a rash scare with Zachary that turned out not to be what they thought it might be (ITP). Birthday pics for Benjamin were rescheduled, too.

    Rough week. Looking to reschedule party to a date a couple weeks from now. More on that when we figure it out…

     
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