Updates from October, 2009

  • Pumpkins and Llamas and Hay, Oh My

    Stacey and Alex 12:43 pm on October 12, 2009 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , , , Pleasure Valley Llamas, pumpkin farm

    Family at Pleasure Valley Llama/Pumpkin Farm October 2009

    Spent the afternoon this past Sunday at Pleasure Valley Llamas (and Pumpkin Farm) with Stacey’s parents and Stacey’s nephews Owen and Alejandro. It was our second year visiting. Zachary was too little to really enjoy it last year, but he really made up for it this year. Benjamin had good time again this year, too.

    A few pictures have been uploaded to Flickr if you’re interested:

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/alexfalkenberg/tags/pleasurevalleyllamaandpumpkinfarm/

    It’s well worth the $8 per wristband to enjoy all of the various activities there. Each wristband also includes a 20-pound pumpkin of your choice–picked from their patch yourself, or taken from carts near the entrance/exit. Larger pumpkins are $2 for every additional ten pounds over twenty, so a $40-lb pumpkin would only cost you an extra four bucks; a pretty good deal in the grand scheme of things-pumpkin. It’s located about 20 miles or so west of Random Lake, near Adell/Batavia. The farm’s website (linked above) has a map.

    We hope you enjoy the pictures.

     
  • Funny The First Hundred Times... Maybe More

    Dad 8:20 am on February 24, 2009 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: htc mogul, joke, , vimeo

    Update:  Just in case you can’t see the embedded Vimeo video below, here’s the direct link to it on the Vimeo website:

    http://vimeo.com/3343680

    Our apologies to anyone that had trouble!

    So I cracked this joke at dinner last night, and Benjamin thought it was pretty funny, so he kept repeating it. And of course, I made him repeat it again for a quick little video. His fake-laughing really is super-funny, though maybe you have to be there to appreciate it. ;)

    The joke, in case the audio’s as poor as the video (recorded with my crappy cellphone camera), is “Is your nose running?” “Yes.” “Better go catch it!” followed by his classic fake-laughing and a request to watch the recording we’d just made. Enjoy!

     
  • Three. Already.

    Dad 8:05 am on February 20, 2009 | 0 Permalink | Reply
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    So hard to believe it, but Benjamin’s three already. It’s just insane how fast time is flying!

    Benjamin The Bear - 08 Feb 2009

    He really is a fantastic kid. We’re so very proud of him and how nice a job he’s doing growing up, even if it seems like it’s all moving way too fast. He’s a great son and an awesome big brother.

    If you’re at all interested in a shot from his past, here’s a post from his very first birthday that includes a pretty cute picture of him:

    http://www.benjaminfalkenberg.com/2007/02/20/the-big-one/

    We’ll have some three-year portraits here to look at, soon, so keep an eye out for those.

    Benjamin’s transformation so far has been amazing, and continues to be amazing. And not just the changes in him, but also the changes in us as adults and parents; Stacey and I have also really grown tremendously since he was born; it seems like he teaches us as much as we teach him. And it all feels very, very right.

    Love you, buddy!

     
  • Happy Holidays!

    Stacey and Alex 8:00 am on December 25, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: 2008, Benjamin handwriting, , letter,

    Benjamin-and-Zachary-Xmas-2008

    Benjamin wrote his first-ever letter to Santa to put out with the cookies and milk last night on Christmas Eve. Or, rather, Dad asked Benjamin what he wanted to say to Santa, Benjamin told Dad, and Dad wrote most of it, except for a couple of bits Benjamin insisted he write himself; he focused so very hard writing the bits he did, and it was incredibly cute…

    Dear Santa,

    Merry Christmas!

    Hi. I’ve been a good boy this year. My brother Zachary was a good boy this year, too.

    [Benjamin scribbles, saying each word out loud as he slowly, carefully writes...] (”It’s a good cookie.”)

    Mommy has been a good girl, and Daddy was a good guy. Owen and Ollie and Laura and Lydia were good, too. Nana and Papa were good, too.

    Merry Christmas.

    [Benjamin scribbles, saying each word out loud as he slowly, carefully writes...] (”I was a good boy.”)

    Santa, thank you for the presents.

    We love you, Santa.

    – Benjamin, Zachary, Mommy, Daddy and Yoda… (and [long list of cousins, aunts and uncles here])

    Bye!

    Awesome, right?  :)

    We hope you had a great 2008…and we hope you have an even better 2009. Take care, everyone–we love you all.

     
  • An Angel Was Here...

    Stacey and Alex 11:00 am on December 21, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: angel, imprint, snow, snow angel

    benjamins-first-snow-angel-enhanced

    Benjamin’s first snow angel, created 20 December 2008, in our front yard.

    Image manipulated slightly to enhance the imprint.

     
  • Meet the New Cast

    Stacey and Alex 8:35 am on December 20, 2008 | 1 Permalink | Reply
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    Zachary fell from an armchair this past week and broke his right arm. :(

    zachary-cast-1Initially, in the early evening of December 16th, both he and Benjamin were sitting in the chair together. Benjamin got down to do something else. Zachary leaned over the side of the chair to see where his brother went, and boom, down he went.

    He wasn’t acting like he’d broken anything. He rarely cries as it is, so it was hard to really determine if there was something seriously wrong or if he had just scared himself. Until the next morning, anyway, when we started to notice he wasn’t putting weight on his arm… He was climbing up the stairs, but using his right elbow instead of his entire arm. He was grabbing at things and picking things up, trying to use his arm and his hand, but heavy things (like a full sippy cup or a book) were things he couldn’t hold, and he was dropping them. Uh-oh.

    The fall was less than a foot and a half to the floor. Really. He apparently landed Just Right™. He’s certainly had bigger, more dramatic falls before…

    zachary-cast-2So we called our pediatrician, who normally offers appointments same-day for the serious stuff. We couldn’t get in; our doc was apparently on a half-day, and there just weren’t any slots open. Very disappointing (thanks, nurse!). Ended up with an appointment with him the following morning, got some x-rays, and confirmed a clean break of his right radius. Plain as day to see on the x-ray. After some calling around, he finally tracked down a orthopedic specialist who could see him and cast the arm.

    Anyway, the arm is casted. The break, it turns out, is both bones in his right forearm, and not just the radius. The ulna is also fractured; it wasn’t as obvious on the x-ray, but the ortho doctor noticed it right away. No setting of the bones was required; straightforward, clean breaks. The cast is waterproof, and the lining under it is Gore-Tex, so he can take baths and even go swimming. He’s already had a couple of baths, and the water runs right out and it’s not been a problem at all.

    You’ll notice he was casted up past his elbow; casts on kids can (and do) fall or slip off, or get pried/pulled off, so they go ahead and cast past the elbow to help hold the thing in place and prevent accidental removal/separation. Zachary would definitely try to pull it off, or at least play with it until it came off.

    zachary-cast-day-afterWe were told bones heal at the rate of approximately 1week per year of age. So Zachary’s arm should be OK in about a week and a half. That’s… amazing.

    We have an appointment again in three weeks to remove the cast, take another batch of x-rays to confirm it’s healed, and hopefully be done. Let’s hope so! It’s been a couple of days now since he got the cast, and he’s definitely felt frustrated. The red-PJ pic here is a great example from his first day with his cast: when he can’t reach something, or can’t put his right hand to his mouth to eat or touch his face at all, he gets a little upset. Can’t blame him… For the most part, though, he’s adjusting just fine. We knew he would; it’s just What He Does™.

    Neither Mom nor Dad have been casted before, so we really were not directly familiar with the process. Turns out it’s quite simple and pretty quick. We’re trying hard not to feel like bad parents, of course. These things happen, and there’s really nothing you can do to stop them. We live, we learn, we keep on going, and growing as a result. :)

     
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